The simple question of “Will you go to prom with me?” has changed throughout the years. Often referred to as a “promposal,” these pop-the-question events have gained a resurgence in popularity thanks to social media. No matter if it is a poster, a fun gift, or a song and dance, these grand gestures are having their moment in school, at sports games, and over social media.
“My promposal was a “Tangled” theme. I really loved it even though we are already dating, because it’s just expected that we will go together,” said junior Emma Sample. “I think it’s just a cute way to put a little extra effort and show you care. I also really like it because I like seeing what Brady [Crisp] comes up with and how he will execute it. He knows that “Tangled” has always been my favorite movie since I was little, and it also goes with the theme, so I thought it was really cute,” she said.
While some think the idea of promposals started on Tik Tok, Instagram, and Pinterest, they have actually been popular at least the last two decades as a way to stand out, show affection, and surprise someone you care about.
“I was really shocked when I saw Jonathan with the donuts, and then I realized it was my proposal, and I was so happy,” said junior Margauex Cantagallo.
“Benny [Denby] went out of his way and left his phone at his friends’ house so I wouldn’t see his location. Then he snuck into my house and strung fairy lights and a heart on my back patio, and candles along my driveway. He had a sign that quoted ‘Dear Miss’, a Zach Bryan song. Of course, I posted photos on Instagram,” said Natalia Merchan ’26.
For the person doing the asking, the process can be nerve-wracking but satisfying…assuming the other person says “yes.”
“Giving it to [Sample]] made me happy because I had just lost my soccer game, so seeing her surprised brought up my mood,” said Crisp.